【第131期】2011-01-11：一见钟情可靠吗？ 情侣, 朋友, 一见钟情, 婚姻

Solusrex

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本期话题：一见钟情可靠吗？

      在你们的朋友当中，或者那些知道的人里，有没有情侣是在相识不久之后就在一起了，或者说就进入婚姻殿堂的了？

      Among your friends,or these people you've known of,are there couples who became lovers or got married soon after they came to know each other?

      事实上，确实有不少的人们一见钟情然后陷入爱河。然而，与此同时，他们也冒着被欺骗的危险。对有些人来说，要彻底认识一个人是需要时间的，且要一步步来。

      The fact is that some people do fall in love with each other at first sight.But,at the same time,they are taking the risks of being cheated.For some people,it's a long way to get to know a person completely,and there are steps to take.

      亲爱的朋友，你认为两个陌生人会仅仅因为一些无法解释的化学物质而瞬间擦出火花吗？你相信一见钟情吗？一见钟情能长久吗，可靠吗？

      My dear friends,do you believe that two strangers may be sparked quickly by physical attraction because of some sort of natural attraction we can't explain?Do you believe in love at first sight?Do you think this kind of love can last long or is reliable?

35283408

anything is possible,
first singht _the result one  is they are go along ther life until dead.the other's broben emotion and say goodbye to their married,
they are all right
everyone is difficult,so they have diffierent minds.  we could do nothing.

SugerDaisy

Actually, "falling in love at first sight" is a romantic thing, but I don't think this kind of relationship could last long, but it may happens.
It is hard to know a person completely in a short time, but marriage is a long story, we need to spend the rest of our life with the person we choose, so we need to have at least similar value, then we will not have big confilict in later life.

abc_3345

i don,t no .because Everything must have a exception

陈秀玲

in my life, I never believe I will love one person at my first eye``never appear```

kuangye678

回复 28# itsmypink


    i agree with you.

itsmypink

i believe the " first sight ",but i don't think affection should based on it . in other words ,it is not reliable enough to fall in love with each other just because of the first sight .take a opposite example , despite you fall in love because of first sight , but your characters are not in line ,you will find you are disturbing by trivia ,and the first impression nowhere to find .
so ,in my opinion, first sight is a element , not  the determinant , not the whole .

Rachel0818

It depends, I guess. It is possible sometimes!!
According to what I have known, I think fall in love at first sight is quite possible, and it is a wonderful, incredible feeling. When you meet someone, you totally forget the others and you just want to stay with him/her. I met such a guy recently, and we are the very case talked here. We went steady soon, we like each other, care about each other. We share everything, we believe both sides are the one looking for......So, I believe destiny, I follow my heart and I hope we can be happy forever~

gaodaiyongbbs

回复 3# tjhd

fjwbigben

I believe it. Regardless of the cheating and any other stuff, I think most people want to meet someone and love someone at their sight. It's an amazing experience that we will always remember. Like Jack and Rose, Romio and Juliet, I know they sound skethy. In real life, there are people love at the sight everyday.Some of them are married and have a good life. Someone says it's true love.  We all know that we Chinese have a word called "YUAN FENG".

kuangye678

回复 23# Lyra11


   i'm agree with you.marriage contains many other things

Lyra11

I used to see a report about this, scientist scanned a group of men's brains when they were staring at different girls, and the result was so magical, the screen became colourful while they met the grils who they liked. So, I do beleive there is something connected between two persons that attract each other at the first sight. However, it doesn't mean their marriage must be successful if they get married, since marriage is not just love, it contains lots of things.Of course, that's a good beginning, but you have to get to know each other for a period of time,that's necessary.

goodluck_zhou

I agree with floor 19 ! a good first sight is the begining of a true love .There  is one guy,my good friend, has steped into marriage , soon after they know eachother. A strong feeling is good for dating , it pull you together and brings a strong desire to know eachother deeplyl.

面包脸脸

I think it indeed exists,I still trust it ,also two people want to be together forever or long time ,.they must learn eath other for a period of time,totally depending on the love at first sight is not enough~

吉祥猪

i don't believe it. when people fall in love with their lover, they need to know something about him or her.people could say that love makes man blind ,but we are in the real world and so is love.

lingkiki

I believe .
it is the first feeling when you see someone . it is a feeling strongly from your heart that tell you the person you meet is different for you .

fangnan

I believe it because there are some examples that go well with these fall in love at the first sight. But for maself, I can't acept this love. I believe love should be build on knowship between eachother, you can't learn his history&philosophy&world view&background and other things. Importantly, you two didn't face diffierent problems,how can you know you two can survive that circumstance together?
Love someone is loving his weaknesses, one usually hid his or her weaknesses at the first sight, but only show his or her shining side to others. How can you know you can stand his weskness?
Love someone is not only loving himself, but also loving his parents&family&all backgrounds after him, Are you sure to accept it?
Anyway, I believe ture love will overcome all problems and difficulties, Jack shall have Jill,  all shall be well！

kpmazda

Rome cann't build in a day. I believe love is a process that people admire each other by understanding. Man will get old. and one day spark may disapear. Only the truth love,which is accumulated day by day, can last forever.

lyycat0516

I believe 。