【第47期】2010-10-19：你懂得拒绝别人的无理请求吗? 请求

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本期话题：你懂得拒绝别人的无理请求吗?

亲戚朋友有困难，大部分人定当两肋插刀，竭尽所能地去帮助他人。而部分别有用心的人，处处刁难，故意找茬，或者他们明明很有钱，却装作没钱，到处向熟人借钱，而且是“刘备借荆州，一去不回头”。

Most people will make every effort to help others, even at the loss of their lives, when the relatives and friends are in trouble. While some people with ulterior motives will create troubles and find faults intentionally. Or else they are actually wealthy, but pretend to be poor, borrow money from relatives everywhere, and “never return” just like Liu Bei in the Three Kingdom seized Jing State.

对于这种别有用心的人，亲爱的，你是如何支招的呢？你懂得拒绝别人的无理请求吗？欢迎分享你的秘诀。

My dear friends, what will you do to these people with ulterior motives? Do you know how to refuse the unreasonable request of others? Welcome to share your tricks.

你懂得拒绝别人的无理请求吗?

Do you know how to refuse the unreasonable request?



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小雅儿

i will say "no" if it's beyond my ability

jacob.lu

how to refuse the unreasonable request。
i know and i will do it.

kobe

I will make some excuses to refuse the unreasonable request

airflyboy

I am a nice guy, if my friend borrow money from me again and again but don't reture back. I think I will cut off the relationship between us. it's his thing. he spend a little money on burying our friendship.