Give some advice! get along with mother-in-law about, advice, something

Rachel0818

How to get well along with your mother-in-law? Please say something about it.

MCWQ

Like  handle the relationship with your boss.

Rachel0818

回复 2# MCWQ


   Do't you think it too official? We should regard her as our own mother, right?

MCWQ

I mean the skill is the same way.

Rachel0818

回复 4# MCWQ


   YES，show her your respect and love.

tingroom

treat her as  your mother

xiaopengyou

i heard the old people like children
buy her gift
praise her，for example
when she cooks for you, you can say" the fish is very delicious,i like it very much"
"you looks so young"
and so on

Rachel0818

回复 6# tingroom


   exactly what I want to express.  谢谢啦，帮我的挪到更合适的版块，嘿嘿

Rachel0818

回复 7# xiaopengyou


   重要的是将心比心，尽量让她们开心才是。还有，不能为难丈夫，毕竟一边是妻子一边是母亲，很难做的。

MCWQ

回复 5# Rachel0818

Tips: More talking,No fighting.good luck!

Rachel0818

回复 10# MCWQ


   be peaceful

Rachel0818

回复 12# titlejune


   内心的想法不总是和别人的一致

mei_charles

for me have the same problem also, i don't know how to get along well with my mother-in-law, we always fight,  lots of problem.

i know well about praise, but it just a interim skill, can't solve all the root problem.

if we do this, we can hidden the problem temporary but after that will also break up.

i need a long term solution. pls help~~  don't say living separately....

Rachel0818

回复 13# mei_charles


   Try to have a good talk and speak out all the problems.  Doesn't your mother-in-law like you? Or you don't respect her in some way, do you?

kobe

just be yourself as usual