However, with kids (especially at an early age), when they fall down, they don't perceive their falling down as failure, but instead, they treat it as a learning experience (as just another result/outcome). They feel compelled to try and try again until they succeed. (The answer must be...they have not associated "falling down" with the word "failure" yet, thus they don't know how to feel the state which accompanies failure. As a result, they are not disempowered in any way. Plus, they probably think to themselves that it's perfectly okay to fall down, that it's not wrong to do so. In other words, they give themselves permission to make mistakes, subconsciously. Thus they remain empowered
然而，孩子们却不这样，尤其是幼童，当他们摔倒的时候，他们并不把摔倒视为失败；相反，他们把它看作是学习经验的过程，是另外的成就或结果。他们觉得必须尝试，再尝试，直到成功。其实，问题的答案就在于孩子并没有把“摔倒”与“失败”联系起来，所以他们感受不到失败的滋味，也不会因此而泄气。或许他们还觉得摔倒完全没有关系，要是不摔倒才不合理呢。换句话说，他们在潜意识中允许自己犯错误，这样，他们就总保持着干劲。
