please read the story carefully,then tell me what are you thinking about when you read the whole story~Don't be shy,just make your imagination fly in your sky!
Two women were chating in a room,One asked, "How is everthing going with your son?""Oh,don't’ even mention it, what a huge misfortune!!" The woman sighed :"He is poor enough, and marry a extraordinary lazy daughter-in-law.She doesn’t cook,not clean the room,not look after the children except sleep all the time.It was my son who bring breakfast to her bed.
"How about your dauther?"
"She might be lucky." Woman smiled,
"He married a good husband who doesn't allow him to do the housework,and handle everything all alone.The housework include cooking,washing ,cleaning and looking after the children.What's more, he brought the breakfast to my daughter everyday.
Consider
same situation, but when we look at from my perspective, it will have a different mentality.
stand to look at other people's position, or at each other's point of view to think about a lot of things not the case,
You can have a greater tolerance, will have more love.
accommodate only have love, only love do not accommodate, and all are in vain.
【中文译文】
有二个妇人在聊天，其中一个问道：“你儿子还好吧?”“别提了，真是不幸哦! ”这个妇人叹息道：“他实在够可怜，娶个媳妇懒的要命，不烧饭、不扫地、不洗衣服、不带孩子，整天就是睡觉，我儿子还要端早餐到她的床上呢!”
“那女儿呢?”
“她可就好命了。”妇人满脸笑容
“她嫁了一个不错的丈夫，不让她做家事，全部都由先生一手包办，煮饭、洗衣、扫地、带孩子，而且每天早上还端早点到床上给她吃呢!”
试想
同样的状况，但是当我们从我的角度去看时，就会产生不同的心态。
站在别人的立场看一看，或在对方的角度想一想，很多事就不一样了，
你可以有更大的包容，也会有更多的爱。
有包容才有爱，只有爱不懂包容，一切皆枉然。作者: 莎莎dawn 时间: 2011-5-16 17:08
Yeah everyone would have differnt views at different position,so when you have some conflicts with others ,you just think in his mind at his position,then we would feel less unhappy.作者: fangnan 时间: 2011-5-16 18:05
It is vivid to describe the different attitude to daughter and daughter-in-law. Just have the concern that your daughter will be one's wife in the future, that is to say another woman's daughter-in-law, so be kind to others' daughter!作者: 点滴 时间: 2011-5-16 21:56
NOTHING TO SAY作者: dragon520 时间: 2011-5-17 14:09
When you do or say something,if you stand at others situation,you will be do it well.作者: nancy1215225 时间: 2011-5-17 14:51
to be an unselfish person作者: amazon496 时间: 2011-5-17 15:56
"You can have a greater tolerance, will have more love." What a beautiful sentence! We should adjust our attitude to do anything well.作者: jane019 时间: 2011-5-17 22:37
I think everyone has the rights to choose the style of his life ,especially the couple.If they feel happy,others woud better wish them.Maybe this is tolerance love.作者: ccll 时间: 2011-5-20 15:31
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