Friendship needs to be nurtured with sincere heart and some skills. I am not preaching here but to express my true feelings. You should not care too much about your friend, when male or female. Otherwise, he or she will feel over pressure. But you should not neglect him or her. Otherwise you will lose contact forever. It is hard to reciprocate equal love to each other, whether for friends or lovers. There is always one party who would give more than receive, and it is exactly this party who would suffer the most once something goes wrong. Therefore, oftentimes, you should remind yourself not to give too much when dealing with your friend to prevent both of you from hurt. So now, I will not force others to do anything for me and bring them pressure.
Not all the people you know can become your friends. Everyone has his value of life, ways of behaving, interests and hobbies and personalities. Therefore, everyone has his own criteria to select friends. My principle of making friends is to achieve communication of hearts. I often hold that no one can live without friendship, assistance, care and support from others. When your friends encounter setbacks, if you can offer them a hand and help them out, it is more precious than any priceless gifts. The essence of friendship lies in reciprocal help and share of happiness and sorrows. Only by doing this can friendship last eternally.
Sometimes hurt will be engendered between friends, but more often than not, it is done unintentionally. However, help from your friends is indeed out of their heart! So please forget the hurt done unintentionally and keep sincere help from your friends in mind, and you will realize there are many real friends who care about you……In our lives, even the best friends will have some friction now and again, and our friendship may breakdown because of it. But when we could not fall into sleep on a lonely night and look into the sky, we could see a lot of beautiful memories, some of which may bring a huge affection to our heart. It is this feeling that makes us realize the significance of friends. For friendship, you should not be too close to your friends. Otherwise the relationship may become too complex. Nor should you be too remote from them. Otherwise you may lose contact. Only by staying at an apt distance to your friends can you truly sense each other’s sincerity and love. Everyone has his own life, so when you feel upset and discouraged, when you realize your friends become apathetic, please treasure your friendship, whether it is on the internet or in real life. Friendship is just like water and air to us! Do not feel sad only until you lose it!
I want to own a huge number of bosom friends, but I know it is out of the question. I just let it be without thinking too much. Those who are doomed to be my friends will come to me naturally, while those who are not can barely be retained once they want to leave from me. When friendship comes to an end, it is no need to sigh and insist. Rather, we should get rid of the pessimistic side and showcase our most graceful personality to others. We should live a life with our lives, because we are living not for pain, but for happiness that stems from mutual understanding.
Please cherish your friends no matter what happens. Maybe your friendship will not last long or will be forgotten one day, but you should attach enough importance to it. It is a seed that will bud, grow leaves, blossom and even bear fruits in your heart once you care about it. The flagrance from the blooming flowers will accompany you all your life……
Everyone has his own life, so when you feel upset and discouraged, when you realize your friends become apathetic, please treasure your friendship, whether it is on the internet or in real life. Friendship is just like water and air to us! Do not feel sad only until you lose it!
I like this sentence、、、、、、、、、作者: evaxiaofan 时间: 2010-12-29 15:53
Not all the people you know can become your friends. The essence of friendship lies in reciprocal help and share of happiness and sorrows. 作者: evaxiaofan 时间: 2010-12-31 09:06
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