yo1

great

whitesowhite8

There are two kinds of love: passionate and companionate.

Passionate love is like a fire. It is like a drug, which you can addict. At the beginning of the relationship, we want to see each other days and night. It's sweet and it gives you a pleasant feeling. However, the passionate love cannot keep you continuously high and happy.

True love, the love that keep you a strong relationship is simply strong companionate love.
"Companionate love grows slowly over the years as lovers apply their attachment and caregiving system to each other, and as they begin to reply upon, care for, and trust each other." (It is base on both of you about what you do to your lover, how trust you feel about him, it is about how much you care for each other determine if can keep your long distant relationship)

最後決定：不在乎你們有多熱情愛對方，而是你們有多信賴，多關心及多照顧對方。

yo1

回复 7# leo-liu


    haha,,mabe,,

leo-liu

I have this boring experience one year ago ,but both of us resolve it via video chat、 phone and meeting lover once a month.
so ,I advise you  can study me if you fall in love now.

Jessicalv

回复 5# yo1


     必须的

yo1

回复 3# Jessicalv


    You are very optimistic.

yo1

回复 2# tingroom


    May be a good choice.

Jessicalv

if i have to face  it one day ,i will.

tingroom

i can bear it before i marry him.