12月28日美文欣赏：LOVE challenge, 美文欣赏, lonely, love

icy_zhu

hello,guys~pls read the story carefully and then translate the phrases which are marked in red or write  down your feeling to gain the scores~

      Love means having a want for the person I love without having a need for that person in order to be complete. If I love you but you leave, I'll experience a loss and be sad and lonely, but I'll still be able to survive. If I am overly dependent on you for my meaning and my survival, then I am not free to challenge our relationship; nor am I free to challenge and confront you. Because of my fear of losing you, I'll settle for less than I want, and this settling will surely lead to feelings of resentment.
      Love means identifying with the person I love. If I love you, I can empathize with you and see the world through your eyes. I can identify with you because I'm able to see myself in you and you in me. This closeness dose not implies a continual "togetherness", for distance and separation are sometimes essential in a loving relationship. Distance can intensify a loving bond, and it can help us rediscover ourselves so that we are able to meet each other in a new way.
     Love involves seeing the potential within the person we love. In my love for another, I view her or him as the person she or he can become, while still accepting who and what the person is now. Goethe's observation is relevant here: by taking people as they are, we make them worse, but by treating them as if they already were what they ought to be, we help make them better.

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懂你LOVE

I love you not because what you are,but because what I am with you.

lishingtail

so good ,what a beautiful essay!

fangnan

be loved,be needed,be independent

runpu.li

this is a good article.

lxw987654321

nice

骆叶飘飘

good

icy_zhu

回复 7# yezichen


I always want to know whether I did a good job and what is my shortage in my job， but actually,you know,hardly ever somebody can point it out,I was very glad you help to do it for me~
I appreciate it very much.welcome next time!

yezichen

回复 6# icy_zhu


    I know you do a very good job ,I'll always be there for you.

icy_zhu

thank you very much for your suggeestion!
I will try my best to pay more attention to what you suggest!
and learn from yy2235~~

yezichen

I want to  give you a suggestion,please  study for  moderator like yy2235 ,say what do you want us to do clearly ,and  please pay attention to  the typesetting clear .

你做的很棒哦，支持你。呵呵，希望这点建议你能接受改进哦，我只是一个来这个论坛不久的人，但是可能是所学专业的原因吧，极大地关注了学习者，如果这么一大段短文放在这里不进行排版，没有段落，对于像我这样英语水平很一般的人来说，真的很难坚持看完哦，希望你稍微注意一下吧，最后希望大家在这里都能更好的交流。
Thank you！

icy_zhu

回复 3# eedhatt
I am sorry to hear that.
if this passage can help you go out of your pain,I would be happy very much~

eedhatt

My girl friend said goodbye to me two months ago. I have been sad until now and I don't know when I will get good. I think this article is very good. Thank icy_zhu .

float

Distance and separation are sometimes essential in a loving relationship.