do you think it's necessary? necessary

ellven

my classmates are all caught in their loves during the study period.someone says we should study hard at this time,and then we can afford to make a bf or gf not by our parents'money ,but by our own capacity.however,others hold that it will be memorable to have a love when you are young.so do you think it is really necessary to have a love during your colledge time?

ellven

回复 18# Rita_lf


    i see.thank u

Rita_lf

If you meet the true love, just catch it!! Then balance the study and love、、、、、、、、、、

eedhatt

回复 7# kobe


    In senior school,I found a girl and we studied together to enter a good university. But the result was that she went to a university which is much better than the one where I studied in. When we were sophomores, she left me. I think if you really like someone,you should't give up. Life does't mean study only,you can make progress  with your GL or BL together if she or he is the  person suitable for you.

173172983

well i don't think it is all disadvantages  if you caught in love sb ..

ellven

回复 14# xiaomeixin


    yeah,diffrent people hold different view

xiaomeixin

It's doesn't necessary.
It's just for what you think.

ellven

yeah,everyone has his or her own consideration

zb_bsf

Everything has two sides. Do not seek ask for your love purposely, let it have its swing.

mfkhao2009

first we should study hard.then if we meet the other side .we can protect she.

float

If you meet your lover during your colledge time,you can caught in  love.
or else you can  do what you want to do if not meet her or him .
Don't follow others

雪花片

On campus,  i was incapable of balancing finding a bf and langauge learning, so i chose the latter. whether it is necessary depens on different persons.

ellven

回复 7# kobe


     i think this situation is rare,but it can't be deny it's really exist.

kobe

yeah!Maybe~
I say that with my opinion
maybe some are not if you find a girl study with you,
you'll study better than before!

ellven

回复 3# leenyao


    yeah ,maybe it's true.i think we must balance the two sides.and choose the best one which is profit for you.
to a certain,they are not contradictory。

ellven

回复 2# kobe


    so do you have gf now?

leenyao

and i guess you keep it in a best condition

leenyao

i think there is not a positive respond to this question.it vary from person to person .we should learn to balance all the young stuff.

kobe

I think you should study hard at this time!
I think it's wasting your best time to realize your dream.