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.gif) Women, did you know there are 12 things that you do that man tend to hate most of all? It's true these things that women either know or don't know that they do. What are these 12 things that women should avoid? They are:
1. Not Sticking to Agreements
When agreements are made, women tend to break them or change them to suit their needs, no matter what the situation is.
2. Keeping Their Feelings
It's stereotypical to believe women share automatically how they are feeling. Actually, women will hold in their feelings until they are asked often enough that they spill what is on their minds.
3. Try to Change Their Men
Women often understand men but don't agree with the way they are. Women try to change them to suit their needs or leave them alone completely.
4. Mate Comparison
Women, sometimes unknowingly, compare their current mate to their ex in terms of negative aspects. Comparisons should be made when it's favorable.
5. Belittling His Hobbies
Everyone has a hobby or two that their mate doesn't like. However, you should never keep them from doing it. Also, never demand that they take an interest in your hobby. The message you send is that your hobbies are much more important than his and that's not the message you should be sending.
6. Gossiping
While it would seem to stroke the man's ego, men don't like women gossiping about them, whether it's good or bad. It doesn't matter.
7. Nagging
Men do not like it when a woman constantly nags them about getting things done whether or not it's with good intentions.
8. Interruption
Believe it or not, a man needs to talk to so it's best you listen with an open mind and not try to interrupt. Men do not like it when a woman listens but looks impatient to talk too. If you interrupt him with something else not relevant to the current conversation, you could create tension between the both of you.
9. Solution Oriented vs. Conversation Oriented
Men like to get to the bottom of things so don't get upset if they don't want to talk for hours about a particular subject.
10. Beauty Conscious
Men do not like it when a woman spends a lot of time looking at herself in the mirror but still looks the same as she always does.
11. Paranoia
Men don't like it when a woman gets paranoid about the way she looks. If your man doesn't like the way you look, they wouldn't be with you.
12. Insecure/Jealously
Believe it or not, men do not like jealousy, even a small bit. This is especially true if you are out on a date together and catch their eye wander. You make a wise crack about it. This actually annoys them very much.
女人啊，你可曾知道男人最恨你做的哪十二件事？事实上，对于这些事情，女人们也许知道，也许不知道。 女人该避免哪十二件事呢？分别是：
1. 不守约定
一旦立下约定，女人往往会不遵守，或是按自己的需要更改，才不去管合不合时宜。
2. 憋住自己的感受
老一套的观点认为，女人会主动地分享她们的内心感受。其实，女人会憋住自己的感受，只有当她们被问到一定的时候，才肯将心里话倾出肺腑。
3. 试图改造自己的男人
女人往往了解男人，可又不认同他们的行为方式。女人要么试图改变他们以符合她们的需要，要么就彻底将他们仍在一边。
4. 比较伴侣
女人——有时不自觉地——会将自己现在的伴侣同她们的前任伴侣就负面因素进行比较。只有在产生有利结果时才能做比较。
5. 贬损他的嗜好
每个人都有一两种嗜好是他伴侣所不喜欢的。然而，你绝不应该禁止他去做。还有，绝不要强迫他选择你的嗜好，因为你所传达的信息就是：你的嗜好远比他的重要。你不能传达出这种信息。
6. 八卦
男人不喜欢女人八卦他们，无论是正面还是负面的，因为这看上去有伤男人的自尊。不八卦人照样活。
7. 唠叨
无论女人是不是出于好心，男人不喜欢女人总是叫他们做这儿做那儿地唠叨起没完。
8. 打断谈话
信不信由你，男人需要人与之交谈。所以你最好聚精会神地去倾听，而不要总想打断。男人也不喜欢女人在听他们讲话时表现出不耐烦的样子。如果你用不相干的事情打断了他，你就可能在你们彼此之间制造出紧张气氛。
9. 解决型 vs. 交谈型
男人喜欢直入主题，所以如果他们不想就某个具体话题谈论几个小时，你也不要不高兴。
10. 臭美
男人不喜欢：女人在镜子前面大费时光地端详自己，但其实，她们看上去还和往常一样。
11. 偏执狂
男人不喜欢女人过分怀疑自己的外貌。要是你的男人不喜欢你的样貌，他就不会和你在一起了。
12. 多疑或嫉妒
你爱信不信，男人不喜欢爱吃醋的女人，哪怕只有一丁点。特别是，当你们一起出去时，如果你抓住了他那到处游移的眼睛，并对此说了一句俏皮话，那其实这会使他大为光火的。 |
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发表于 2011-4-26 19:27
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呵呵 ~~原来你是这样想的呀~~
发表于 2011-4-27 17:03
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maybe ~~
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yes!you can say that again~~