You're single--a heat-seeking bachelor, committed to no one inparticular, able to party like John Belushi and sleep until noon withno one underfoot to tell you to do otherwise. It's a great life, andwhy shouldn't it be?
1.You can take the time to find the right woman 你有足够的时间来寻找合适的女人
One of our reasons for staying single is that you can afford to waitfor your true soul mate (if one even exists) to pop into the picture.You can take the time to casually wade through the barracuda-infestedwaters of the dating pool and set your hook for the prize catch.
It's sad to say, but too many guys get hitched for the wrong reasons,like they've reached a certain age, all of their friends are gettingmarried, and they haven't been successful at dating and this woman isthe first to show interest.
Our No. 2 reason for staying single is that you can enjoy theopportunity of building your career without draining the tons of energya permanent relationship entails. You remain free to put in long hours,work on the weekends or do whatever else you have to do to besuccessful. This is especially true if you're working in any kind oftime-demanding field, such as medicine, law or entrepreneurship.
3.You can do what you want, when you want 无论何时,你都可以做你想做的事
When you're single, the world is your oyster. You can pick up and goanywhere you want, do anything you want, any time you want. No one isin the background nagging at you to do chores, go shopping, or "growup."
You're absolutely free to hang out with your buddies, party until dawnand find plenty of time for your personal interests and hobbies. Bestof all, you have the luxury of being all by yourself, if you feel likeit.
你可以尽情和弟兄们出去狂欢至天明,留出足够时间从事兴趣爱好。最妙的是,你可以做你欢的自己。
4.You can enjoy a sexual smorgasbord 你有更多机会一夜风流
One of the best reasons for staying single is that you're not stuckwith the same sex partner for the rest of your life. The datinguniverse is yours to conquer. You can happily sample all the differentfare at the sexual buffet, and keep your taste buds primed for the nextdish being served.
What's more, you never have to wrestle with sexual boredom or lack ofvariety (and you'll be the envy of all your married friends).
此外,你不用担心会对千篇一律的交欢方式索然,并会让有妇之夫们眼红。
5.You can build wealth 你可以积累财富
Staying single means not being forced into buying a 10,000-megawattdiamond ring (so your fiance can impress her friends with the hugeprice tag) or any of the other bloodsucking financial drains thatmarriage entails, for that matter.
By staying single, you're not legally or financially obligated toanyone but yourself. But once you John Hancock the dotted line on thatmarriage contract, she has you by the balls forever.
坚持单身,金钱和法律方面你只需对自己负责。而一旦在那张白纸上签下黑字,她这辈子都靠你养了。
6.You can enjoy serenity 你可以享受宁静
Another reason for staying single is that being alone means peace andquiet. When you don't live with a woman, you're not subjected to hernever-ending mood swings and emotional storms, or her blaming you foreverything that she screws up in her life.
And, of course, no fights. As long as you keep her as a casualgirlfriend and not a wife, if she gets too uppity you can simply walkaway, free and clear.