【第131期】2011-01-11：一见钟情可靠吗？ 情侣, 朋友, 一见钟情, 婚姻

Solusrex

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本期话题：一见钟情可靠吗？

      在你们的朋友当中，或者那些知道的人里，有没有情侣是在相识不久之后就在一起了，或者说就进入婚姻殿堂的了？

      Among your friends,or these people you've known of,are there couples who became lovers or got married soon after they came to know each other?

      事实上，确实有不少的人们一见钟情然后陷入爱河。然而，与此同时，他们也冒着被欺骗的危险。对有些人来说，要彻底认识一个人是需要时间的，且要一步步来。

      The fact is that some people do fall in love with each other at first sight.But,at the same time,they are taking the risks of being cheated.For some people,it's a long way to get to know a person completely,and there are steps to take.

      亲爱的朋友，你认为两个陌生人会仅仅因为一些无法解释的化学物质而瞬间擦出火花吗？你相信一见钟情吗？一见钟情能长久吗，可靠吗？

      My dear friends,do you believe that two strangers may be sparked quickly by physical attraction because of some sort of natural attraction we can't explain?Do you believe in love at first sight?Do you think this kind of love can last long or is reliable?

eedhatt

In my opinion, first sight will decides whether we are interested in each other,and then we have to take a long way to know the other.  It's good for both of us. So I believe in love at first sight and I believe more in the process of our comunications.

tjhd

The time tells the truth yet the key in a great relationship is how you run it and training capacity of managing affection. Bible tells us the point of love is that bears all things, believe that things, hopes all things, endures all things and love never fails.

yy2235

Yes, I believe. Because my Bf was fall in love at first sight to me.At the beginning, I couldn't accept him, but now I accept him. So I believe in love at first sight.

melissa娟

当然不认可了，只有经过了解之后才能考虑吧

kobe

No,I don't believe that,I think "love some one by first sight" is superficialness,"by first sight" it means love some one by her beauty/his hansome appearance...

lihuajingang99

I agree with flour6.In my opinion,although first sigh is important for lovers,it's just a part of love.
Love between you and your boyfriend/girlfriend needs not only expression(first sight),but also tolerance,trust,understand,listen and so on.
So,everything has its both sides.we should regard it from two sides.

面包脸脸

Maybe,but I think this emotion is rare in reality life.Two people want to have a long marriage,they must learn each other in normal life by dribs and drabs,they will find the advantages and disadvantages,maybe they can accept or not,then they will find the real Mr"right" for themself.The love at first sight exists a lot,but whether the marriage based on it exists ,or how long it can continue,we don't know.actually,we all  people are looking forward the love at first sight and we can continue the emotion forever,but the dream is perfect,and the reality is cruel,this kind of love mostly exists in the novels,from beginning to ending,just because we can't own in our life~~

李武军

well it depends. at my hometown it is common! I don't think it can last long. but it maybe

lynne格格

一切皆有可能啊！

jiang0720

I konw some friends were fall in love at first sight. most of them are happy!

mercyww

I think that first sight can give a deep impression to me,and even will affect the relation between me and my friends. But I don't belive in love at first sight.

dsq123dsq

i think it's  depend on one's character.But i think the first sight can give us a chance living with the people whom we think we fall in love with。

cube_0

It is not important  about  falling in love with each other in first sight, In fact ,both of them should do everything for their love. If they become a couple ,they would make some  changes for each other. They must be learning  patience.

lyycat0516

I believe 。

kpmazda

Rome cann't build in a day. I believe love is a process that people admire each other by understanding. Man will get old. and one day spark may disapear. Only the truth love,which is accumulated day by day, can last forever.

fangnan

I believe it because there are some examples that go well with these fall in love at the first sight. But for maself, I can't acept this love. I believe love should be build on knowship between eachother, you can't learn his history&philosophy&world view&background and other things. Importantly, you two didn't face diffierent problems,how can you know you two can survive that circumstance together?
Love someone is loving his weaknesses, one usually hid his or her weaknesses at the first sight, but only show his or her shining side to others. How can you know you can stand his weskness?
Love someone is not only loving himself, but also loving his parents&family&all backgrounds after him, Are you sure to accept it?
Anyway, I believe ture love will overcome all problems and difficulties, Jack shall have Jill,  all shall be well！

lingkiki

I believe .
it is the first feeling when you see someone . it is a feeling strongly from your heart that tell you the person you meet is different for you .

吉祥猪

i don't believe it. when people fall in love with their lover, they need to know something about him or her.people could say that love makes man blind ,but we are in the real world and so is love.